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Wednesday, November 09, 2016

President Obama’s Legacies

By Rick Blumenberg @rickblumenberg 

President Obama, as with most U.S. presidents, according to the news pundits, is concerned about his legacy as POTUS. I think his legacy is two-fold: one positive and one negative.
The negative legacy was his arrogance in regards to his relationship with congress and especially the Republican Party. He began his first term with a democratic house and senate and seemed to think this made him king of the hill. He refused to even listen or talk to republicans and ran rough-shod over their experience and expertise, doing what was right in his own eyes. My first impression of the early days of his presidency was that his arrogance knew no bounds. This attitude softened a bit when he lost some of that support in later elections, but arrogance was the hallmark of his administration to the detriment of our nation.
The republicans on the other hand, instead of trying to build a relationship with him, responded in anger and fought him for the remaining years of his two terms. They were more concerned about their hurt feelings than the good of the nation and as a result they accomplished very little even when they did have some clout.
The other, very positive legacy of President Obama was the nature of his family relationships. He was, by all appearances, a loving husband and a devoted father. This may be the most important thing he did as president. He made it clear that Michelle was the love of his life, and that he respected and admired her for the strong and capable woman she is. He has been a good example for all of us husbands as to the relationship we should have with our wives.
As a father, I thought he was superb. I don’t think anything matters more to him than the well-being of his two beautiful daughters. He was an example of loving, quality fatherhood to us all. I believe one of the greatest reasons for the overwhelming poverty of so many of our inner-city African-American communities is the prevalence of single parent homes and the absence of fathers in the home. Generations of African-American young men grew up with no good father figure to teach them how to be good fathers. President Obama was the father-figure they needed and he used his “bully pulpit” to encourage black youth to man up and be the fathers their children needed. I am convinced this is his greatest legacy. It is the most important thing he did as president. Its value is immeasurable and I hope he builds on it in the years to come.
The sad thing is that the republicans never recognized these qualities nor gave him credit for the awesome thing he was doing just by being a good Dad and encouraging all other dads—red and yellow, black and white—to be the best dads we could be. Question his policies, decisions and actions in politics all you want to, but give him credit for what he did right. It will have a lasting positive effect on our nation.
President-elect Trump will begin in the same position President Obama was in his first term—with both houses of congress in his party. In Trump’s victory speech he said he will work with everyone, including those who didn’t support him in both parties, to lead our nation. I sincerely hope he follows through on that commitment.
I'm Rick Blumenberg and that's
 My View from Tanner Creek.
     

Thursday, December 26, 2013

Congrats to Matt and Katie!


By Rick Blumenberg / @rickblumenberg
"Congratulations Matt & Katie!"  These are words I wrote to my nephew Matthew Britt and his wife Katie on the occasion of his graduation from college. In the few years I’ve written this blog there have been several times I’ve written about persons who had gone to be with the Lord in heaven as a tribute to the great life they had lived and how well they had lived it. Thankfully Matt is still very much alive and living in Missouri with his wife and daughter, but from the time he graduated high school until this college graduation, he put a lot of miles on his boots. I write this tribute because I think he deserves to be recognized for his service as well as for his commitment to making a better life for his family.
Matt Britt & parents Carolyn & Jimmy


Matt served three tours of duty in the Iraq and even traveled to Africa where he spent a year in Kenya supporting the US embassy in matters pertaining to the Kenyan and Somali elections, among other things. He was one of thousands of military men and women who have served our great nation so faithfully in very complicated and dangerous circumstances. While we were going on with our lives Matt and his buddies were risking their lives to serve their country in what was often very difficult situations. 

After Matt returned home, he and Katie settled down and started a family, then left the army in 2011 right at the time when jobs were almost non-existent. Life after the army wasn’t easy for them but they refused to give in to discouragement and instead they decided Matt should go back to college and get his degree. It was a big decision to go to school full time, but Katie encouraged it and was willing to work to make it possible, so Matt agreed. He went year-round and didn’t quit until he was finished, and graduated with two degrees, a BS in Political Science with a minor in psychology, and a Bachelor of General Studies with minor in Political Science.

Matt & Katie
The graduation, like the army, was a family accomplishment. Katie didn’t wear the uniform or take the tests, but she was there with Matt through it all and I am so proud of both of them. 

Part of a military family, Matt was encouraged (and prayed for) by his Dad, a navy veteran and his mom, a navy wife. His brother Chris, who graduated from West Point and served, among other places, in Korea, met Jen, an army dental surgeon, who became his wife. See what I mean? They are a military family.

As I said earlier, I am so proud of both of them and I feel Matt deserves a standing ovation for a life he is living well and with an obvious commitment to making life even better for his wife Katie, his family, and his country. Thanks Matt we really appreciate your service.

I’m Rick Blumenberg, and that’s My View from Tanner Creek.